Hadrat Zainab (bint Abu Salama) (Allah be pleased with her) reported that I went to Hadrat Umm Habiba, the wife of Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), when her father Abu Sufyan had died. Hadrat Umm Habiba sent for a perfume having yellowness in it or something else like it, and she applied it to a girl and then rubbed it on her cheeks and then said: By Allah, I need no perfume but for the fact that I heard Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say on the pulpit:" It is not permissible for a woman believing in Allah and the Hereafter to mourn for the dead beyond three days, but (in case of the death) of the husband it is permissible for four months and ten days." Hadrat Zainab said: I then visited Hadrat Zainab hint Jahsh (Allah be pleased with her) when her brother died and she sent for perfume and applied it and then said: By Allah, I don't feel any need for the perfume but that I heard Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say on the pulpit:" It is not permissible for a woman believing in Allah and the Hereafbler to mourn the dead beyond three days except in case of her husband (for whom she can mourn) for four months and ten days." Hadrat Zainab (Allah be pleased with her) said: I heard my mother Hadrat Umm Salama (Allah be pleased with her) as saying: A woman came to Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: the Beloved Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). I have a daughter whose husband has died and there has developed some trouble in her eye; should we apply collyrium to it? Thereupon Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stated: No (repeating it twice or thrice, saying only, NO" all the time). Then he said: It is only four mouths and ten days, whereas in the preIslamic period none of you threw away the dung until one year had passed. Humaid said: I said to Hadrat Zainab: What is this throwing of dung until a year is passed? Hadrat Zainab said: When the husband of a woman died, she went into a hut and put on her worst clothes, and did not apply perfume or something like it until a year was over. Then an animal like a donkey, or a goat, or a bird was brought to her and she rubbed her hand over it, and it so happened that one on which she rubbed her hand died. She then came out of her house and she was given dung and she threw it and then she made use of anything like perfume or something else as she liked
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حمید بن نافع نے زینب بنت ابی سلمہ سے روایت کی کہ انہوں نے اِن ( حمید ) کو یہ تین حدیثیں بیان کیں ، کہا : زینب رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہا نے کہا : جب نبی صلی اللہ تعالیٰ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کی زوجہ محترمہ حضرت اُمّ المؤمنین ام حبیبہ رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہا کے والد حضرت ابوسفیان رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہ فوت ہوئے تو میں ان کے ہاں گئی ، حضرت اُمّ المؤمنین ام حبیبہ رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہا نے زرد رنگ ملی مخلوط یا کوئی اور خوشبو منگوائی ، اس میں سے ( پہلے ) ایک بچی کو لگائی ( تاکہ ) ہاتھ پر اس کی مقدار بہت کم ہو جائے ) پھر اپنے رخساروں پر ہاتھ مل لیا ، پھر کہا : اللہ کی قسم! مجھے خوشبو کی ضرورت نہ تھی مگر ( بات یہ ہے کہ ) میں نے رسول اللہ صلی اللہ تعالیٰ علیہ وآلہ وسلم سے سنا ، آپ منبر پر ارشاد فرما رہے تھے : " کسی عورت کے لیے جو اللہ تعالیٰ اور آخرت کے دن پر ایمان رکھتی ہو ، حلال نہیں کہ وہ کسی بھی مرنے والے پر تین دن سے زیادہ سوگ منائے مگر خاوند پر ، چار ماہ دس دن ( سوگ منائے)
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زَيْنَبُ دَخَلْتُ عَلَى أُمِّ حَبِيبَةَ زَوْجِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم حِينَ تُوُفِّيَ أَبُوهَا أَبُو سُفْيَانَ بْنُ حَرْبٍ، فَدَعَتْ أُمُّ حَبِيبَةَ بِطِيبٍ فِيهِ صُفْرَةٌ خَلُوقٌ أَوْ غَيْرُهُ فَدَهَنَتْ مِنْهُ ج…
Hadrat Zainab (bint Abu Salama) (Allah be pleased with her) reported that I went to Hadrat Umm Habiba, the wife of Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), when her father Abu Sufyan had died. Hadrat Umm Habiba sent for a perfume having yellowness in it or something else like it, and she applied it to a girl and then rubbed it on her cheeks and then said: By Allah, I need no perfume but for the fact that I heard Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say on the pulpit:" It is not permissible for a woman believing in Allah and the Hereafter to mourn for the dead beyond three days, but (in case of the death) of the husband it is permissible for four months and ten days." Hadrat Zainab said: I then visited Hadrat Zainab hint Jahsh (Allah be pleased with her) when her brother died and she sent for perfume and applied it and then said: By Allah, I don't feel any need for the perfume but that I heard Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say on the pulpit:" It is not permissible for a woman believing in Allah and the Hereafbler to mourn the dead beyond three days except in case of her husband (for whom she can mourn) for four months and ten days." Hadrat Zainab (Allah be pleased with her) said: I heard my mother Hadrat Umm Salama (Allah be pleased with her) as saying: A woman came to Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) and said: the Beloved Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). I have a daughter whose husband has died and there has developed some trouble in her eye; should we apply collyrium to it? Thereupon Allah's Messenger (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) stated: No (repeating it twice or thrice, saying only, NO" all the time). Then he said: It is only four mouths and ten days, whereas in the preIslamic period none of you threw away the dung until one year had passed. Humaid said: I said to Hadrat Zainab: What is this throwing of dung until a year is passed? Hadrat Zainab said: When the husband of a woman died, she went into a hut and put on her worst clothes, and did not apply perfume or something like it until a year was over. Then an animal like a donkey, or a goat, or a bird was brought to her and she rubbed her hand over it, and it so happened that one on which she rubbed her hand died. She then came out of her house and she was given dung and she threw it and then she made use of anything like perfume or something else as she liked
حمید بن نافع نے زینب بنت ابی سلمہ سے روایت کی کہ انہوں نے اِن ( حمید ) کو یہ تین حدیثیں بیان کیں ، کہا : زینب رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہا نے کہا : جب نبی صلی اللہ تعالیٰ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کی زوجہ محترمہ حضرت اُمّ المؤمنین ام حبیبہ رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہا کے والد حضرت ابوسفیان رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہ فوت ہوئے تو میں ان کے ہاں گئی ، حضرت اُمّ المؤمنین ام حبیبہ رضی اللہ تعالیٰ عنہا نے زرد رنگ ملی مخلوط یا کوئی اور خوشبو منگوائی ، اس میں سے ( پہلے ) ایک بچی کو لگائی ( تاکہ ) ہاتھ پر اس کی مقدار بہت کم ہو جائے ) پھر اپنے رخساروں پر ہاتھ مل لیا ، پھر کہا : اللہ کی قسم! مجھے خوشبو کی ضرورت نہ تھی مگر ( بات یہ ہے کہ ) میں نے رسول اللہ صلی اللہ تعالیٰ علیہ وآلہ وسلم سے سنا ، آپ منبر پر ارشاد فرما رہے تھے : " کسی عورت کے لیے جو اللہ تعالیٰ اور آخرت کے دن پر ایمان رکھتی ہو ، حلال نہیں کہ وہ کسی بھی مرنے والے پر تین دن سے زیادہ سوگ منائے مگر خاوند پر ، چار ماہ دس دن ( سوگ منائے)
زَيْنَبُ وَسَمِعْتُ أُمِّي أُمَّ سَلَمَةَ، زَوْجَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم تَقُولُ جَاءَتِ امْرَأَةٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَتْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ ابْنَتِي تُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا …
دخلت على أم حبيبة رضي الله عنه زوج النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم حين توفي أبوها أبو سفيان بن حرب رضي الله عنه، فدعت بطيب فيه صفرة خلوق أو غيره، فدهنت منه جارية، ثم مست بعارضيها. ثم قالت: والله مالي بالطيب من حاجة، غير أني…
