Arabic (Original)
أَخْبَرَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ عَبْدَانَ أنبأ أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ الصَّفَّارُ ثنا عُبَيْدُ بْنُ شَرِيكٍ ثنا أَبُو الْجَمَاهِرِ ثنا الْهَيْثَمُ يَعْنِي ابْنَ حُمَيْدٍ ثنا الْعَلَاءُ بْنُ الْحَارِثِ عَنِ الْقَاسِمِ عَنْ أَبِي أُمَامَةَ ؓ أَنَّ رَجُلًا أَتَى رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ ائْذَنْ لِي فِي الزِّنَى قَالَ فَهَمَّ مَنْ كَانَ قُرْبَ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ أَنْ يَتَنَاوَلُوهُ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ دَعُوهُ ثُمَّ قَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ ادْنُهْ أَتُحِبُّ أَنْ يُفْعَلَ ذَلِكَ بِأُخْتِكَ؟ قَالَ لَا قَالَ فَبِابْنَتِكَ؟ قَالَ لَا فَلَمْ يَزَلْ يَقُولُ بِكَذَا وَكَذَا كُلَّ ذَلِكَ يَقُولُ لَا فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ فَاكْرَهْ مَا كَرِهَ اللهُ وَأَحِبَّ لِأَخِيكَ مَا تُحِبُّ لِنَفْسِكَ قَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ فَادْعُ اللهَ أَنْ يُبَغِّضَ إِلِيَّ النِّسَاءَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ اللهُمَّ بَغِّضْ إِلَيْهِ النِّسَاءَ قَالَ فَانْصَرَفَ الرَّجُلُ ثُمَّ رَجَعَ إِلَيْهِ بَعْدَ لَيَالٍ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ مَا مِنْ شَيْءٍ أَبْغَضُ إِلِيَّ مِنَ النِّسَاءِ فَائْذَنْ لِي بِالسِّيَاحَةِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ إِنَّ سِيَاحَةَ أُمَّتِي الْجِهَادُ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ
English Translation
Ali ibn Ahmad ibn Abdan informed us, from Ahmad ibn Ubayd al-Saffar, from Ubayd ibn Sharik, from Abu al-Jamahir, from al-Haytham ibn Humayd, from al-Ala' ibn al-Harith, from al-Qasim, from Abu Umamah (may Allah be pleased with him) that a man came to the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) and said: Permit me to commit fornication. Those near the Prophet (peace be upon him) were about to seize him, but the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Leave him. Then the Prophet (peace be upon him) said to him: Come closer. Would you like that to be done to your sister? He said: No. He said: What about your daughter? He said: No. He kept mentioning relatives, and each time the man said: No. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Then dislike what Allah dislikes, and love for your brother what you love for yourself. The man said: O Messenger of Allah, pray to Allah to make me hate women. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: O Allah, make him hate women. The man left, then returned after some nights and said: O Messenger of Allah, nothing is more hateful to me than women, so permit me to wander the land in devotion. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: The wandering devotion of my nation is jihad in the cause of Allah.