Arabic (Original)
أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو حَازِمٍ الْحَافِظُ أنا أَبُو الْحَسَنِ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ حَمْزَةَ الْهَرَوِيُّ أنا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ نَجْدَةَ نا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ نا سُفْيَانُ عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ قَالَ تَزَوَّجَ سَلْمَانُ إِلَى أَبِي قُرَّةَ الْكِنْدِيِّ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا قَالَ يَا هَذِهِ إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ أَوْصَانِي إِنْ قَضَى اللهُ لَكَ أَنْ تَزَوَّجَ فَيَكُونُ أَوَّلَ مَا يَجْتَمِعَانِ عَلَيْهِ طَاعَةٌ فَقَالَتْ إِنَّكَ جَلَسْتَ مَجْلِسَ الْمَرْءِ يُطَاعُ أَمْرُهُ فَقَالَ لَهَا قُومِي نُصَلِّي وَنَدْعُو فَفَعَلَا فَرَأَى بَيْتًا مُسْتَتِرًا فَقَالَ مَا بَالُ بَيْتِكُمْ مَحْمُومٌ أَوَ تَحَوَّلَتِ الْكَعْبَةُ فِي كِنْدَةَ؟ فَقَالُوا لَيْسَ بِمَحْمُومٍ وَلَمْ تَتَحَوَّلِ الْكَعْبَةُ فِي كِنْدَةَ فَقَالَ لَا أَدْخُلُهُ حَتَّى تُهْتَكَ كُلُّ سِتْرٍ إِلَّا سِتْرًا عَلَى الْبَابِ هَذَا مُنْقَطِعٌ وَرُوِّينَا فِي كَرَاهِيَةِ ذَلِكَ عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ ؓ وَيُشْبِهُ أَنْ يَكُونَ ذَلِكَ لِمَا فِيهِ مِنَ السَّرَفِ وَاللهُ أَعْلَمُ
English Translation
Abu Hazim al-Hafiz informed us... from Ibn Juraij, who said: Salman married into the family of Abu Qurrah al-Kindi. When he entered upon her, he said: O woman, the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) advised me: If Allah decrees that you marry, let the first thing the couple do together be an act of obedience. She said: You have sat in the seat of a man whose command is obeyed. He said to her: Come, let us pray and supplicate. They did so. Then he saw a house that was covered with curtains and said: What ails your house - is it feverish? Or has the Ka'bah moved to Kindah? They said: It is not feverish, and the Ka'bah has not moved to Kindah. He said: I will not enter it until every curtain is removed except a curtain over the door. This is disconnected (mursal). We have also narrated the dislike of this from Umar bin al-Khattab (may Allah be pleased with him), and it appears that this is because of the extravagance involved. And Allah knows best.