عربی (اصل)
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْرَائِيلُ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عِيسَى عَنْ جَبْرِ بْنِ عَتِيكٍ عَنْ عَمِّهِ قَالَ دَخَلْتُ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ عَلَى مَيِّتٍ مِنْ الْأَنْصَارِ وَأَهْلُهُ يَبْكُونَ فَقُلْتُ أَتَبْكُونَ وَهَذَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ دَعْهُنَّ يَبْكِينَ مَا دَامَ عِنْدَهُنَّ فَإِذَا وَجَبَتْ فَلَا يَبْكِينَ فَقَالَ جَبْرٌ فَحَدَّثْتُ بِهِ عُمَرَ بْنَ حُمَيْدٍ الْقُرَشِيَّ فَقَالَ لِي مَاذَا وَجَبَتْ قَالَ إِذَا أُدْخِلَ قَبْرَهُ.
انگریزی ترجمہ
Abu Nu'aym told us: Isra'il told us, from Abdullah ibn Isa, from Jabr ibn Atik, from his uncle, who said: I entered with the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) upon a deceased man of the Ansar, and his family was weeping. I said: "Do you weep while the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) is here?" The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Leave them to weep as long as it is fresh among them, but once it becomes obligatory, let them not weep." Jabr said: I related this to Umar ibn Humayd al-Qurashi, and he said to me: "What does 'it becomes obligatory' mean?" I said: "When he is placed in his grave."